Kamis, Mei 29, 2008
preparation javaness wedding
The ProposalThe parents of the man (would-be-bridegroom) send an envoy to the parents of the woman (would-be-bride), proposing that their son is willing to marry their daughter. Nowadays, for practical reasons, the parents of both sides can talk directly. The parents of the couple have to approve the marriage. Usually, the parents of the would-be-bride have a greater say, as they are the ones who organise the ceremony. They are the ones who choose which kind of wedding is chosen (among other Paés Agung - great make-up - or Paés Kesatrian - knight's make-up - which is more simple). Every marriage pattern differs in make-up and dresses for the bride and bridegroom.They plan the wedding ceremonies which must be followed, such as Peningsetan (traditional engagement), Siraman (bathing ceremony), Midodareni (ceremony on the eve before the wedding), Panggih (ritual meeting). There has also to be decided what kind of dresses the parents should wear, what kind of batik pattern, which colour etc.
Senin, Mei 26, 2008
puasa sholawat
Puasa sholawat
bOiE : pak rep takon
Sutrisno wtn : ya..
Sutrisno wtn : priwe..
bOiE : kira kira puasa apa ben iso gawe mental
bOiE : dewasa
Sutrisno wtn : za bisa..
Sutrisno wtn : puasa sholawat..
bOiE : maksude
Sutrisno wtn : puasa.. karo maca sholawat..
bOiE : masalahe aku
Sutrisno wtn : aku sering nglakoni kuwe..
Sutrisno wtn : ana ijazahe sekang kyai..
bOiE : rika njaluke maring sapa
Sutrisno wtn : puasane 5 atau 7 dina..
bOiE : tiap bulan apa kur semono tok
Sutrisno wtn : terus selama puasa.. maca sholawat.. 100.000
Sutrisno wtn : dilakukan seumur hidup minimal 3 kali..
bOiE : lah satus ewu apa sedina sanggup , apa decicil selama 7 dina
bOiE : ?
Sutrisno wtn : dicicil selama 7 utawa 5 dina..
Sutrisno wtn : selama puasa..
Sutrisno wtn : dadi angger 7 dina puasa sedina bisa nyicil 15.000
Sutrisno wtn : angger 5 dina puasa 20.000 sedina..
Sutrisno wtn : aku olih dong ngaji nang al Iksan Beji..
bOiE : ooooh
bOiE : maring kyai sapa
Sutrisno wtn : tapi tek lakoni alhmadulillah kena go dalan urip..
bOiE : ganu aku cokan nganah
Sutrisno wtn : mbiyen Pak Syarif langsung..
Sutrisno wtn : wong aku melu TOT mbiyen
Sutrisno wtn : terus diijazaih kuwe..
bOiE : oogh
bOiE : dadi minimal kudu melu tot maksude
bOiE : jane aku
bOiE : tapi wektune aku ra mungkin
Sutrisno wtn : ora..
Sutrisno wtn : wong aku ben bisa ...
Sutrisno wtn : maksude pak syarif
ditidokna..
bOiE : ana mahare pak////
Sutrisno wtn : ra ana..
Sutrisno wtn : babar blass
Sutrisno wtn : gelam nglakoni ben sukur..
bOiE : lah siki rika bisa ngijazahi maring aku ra
Sutrisno wtn : ya.. bisa..
Sutrisno wtn : anu kur gari nglakoni thokk
bOiE : lah sholawate
bOiE : apa sing dewaca
Sutrisno wtn : sholalloh 'ala muhammad..
Sutrisno wtn : thok..
Sutrisno wtn : puasane angger dina 5 dina mulai dina minggu... tekan dina kemis
Sutrisno wtn : angger sing 7 dina dina selasa tekan dina senen..
Sutrisno wtn : saben puasa.. wajib maca sholawat ping 100.000
bOiE : berarti nek kaya kue ngesuk
sedina 15 000 olih ora??
Sutrisno wtn : ya..
Sutrisno wtn : engko saben wengi sholat hajat 6 rokaat..
bOiE : liane
Sutrisno wtn : terus tawasul
Sutrisno wtn : maring ; kanjeng nabi..
Sutrisno wtn : dll
Sutrisno wtn : terus tambah maring syeh mahrus ali lirboyo..
Sutrisno wtn : terus karo pak syarif hidayatulloh beji.
Sutrisno wtn : terus njaluk apa sing dikarepna..
Sutrisno wtn : selama puasa kuwe biasanne rasane tenang.
Sutrisno wtn : terus pikirane jernih..
Sutrisno wtn : kepenak go mikir..
Sutrisno wtn : terus Insya Alloh hajate terkabul
bOiE :
Sutrisno wtn : za..
Sutrisno wtn : angger puasane gagal berarti semuanya gagal..
bOiE : medeni yaaah
Sutrisno wtn : ora maksude..
Sutrisno wtn : angger puasane batal berarti wiridane ya bata.
bOiE : oooh
bOiE : kudu ngulang
Sutrisno wtn : angger puasane
Sutrisno wtn : kudu diulang dari awall,
bOiE : kudu ngetung
bOiE : biasane ben nyicile pas neng wektu apa
Sutrisno wtn : ya kapan2 na kena..
Sutrisno wtn : sing penting genep 100.000
bOiE : nek sinambi karo nggarap pegaweyan priwe
Sutrisno wtn : sedina 20.000
Sutrisno wtn : a ngger khusus go wiridan thok wektune kur 3 jam
bOiE : ya
bOiE : insya alloh tek mulai ngesuk
Sutrisno wtn : ya...
bOiE : eia pak berarti sholat khajate karo sholawate mulai mengko mbengi apa ngesuk
nek
Sutrisno wtn : ya.. bener..
bOiE : mengko mbengi?
Sutrisno wtn : ya.. bisa..
Sutrisno wtn : ]wong enyong ben arep nglakoni ko bengi..
bOiE : ya
bOiE : semuanya
Sutrisno wtn : ya sama2..